The Lost Season

​What a strange season this has been.

The other day I looked in my closet to discover a bright floral blazer that I had purchased in January or February. I was really looking forward to wearing it in the spring when it was still cool out but the bright floral print screamed spring. Well, that was a missed opportunity and it still hangs in my closet with the tags on.

I know many of our spring and even summer wardrobes will go unworn this year as many of our in-person opportunities have been canceled or diminished. With the start of phase 1 opening in NYC, I am bringing you (way later than ever and a much-abridged) spring/summer trend presentation.

I always start my​ presentation of trends with my coined quote that “trends are suggestions and not mandates”. I want you to be in the know and from there you can make decisions if any of the trends resonate with you​ to either fill in a hole in your wardrobe or to simply make you feel great when you wear it.​​

Matching sets. Often in prints, a top with a matching bottom of skirts, pants, or shorts. The perfect way to look effortlessly put together.

​​Jumpsuits, which used to be considered a more trendy item, is seeping into the everyday wear of many. For the warmest of weather, the jumpsuit morphs into a romper. 

​Probably the biggest trend of the season is volume, which shows up in so many ways: shoulders, sleeves, oversized dresses and voluminous skirts, wide-leg pants and culottes.



​Design details such as ruffles, tiers​, and smocking are rampant and often nod to a bohemian look, as well as rouching, which is often reminiscent of the 80’s glam ​styles.

Last year there was big talk of biker shorts (which frankly never really took off). This year the Bermuda short is new and I think will have more mass appeal.

In prints, leopard and cheetah are forever cool, for summer, zebra takes over. Tropicals, ethnic and geo prints are always great this time of year. And don’t forget the trendy tie-dye and ombre in all-new iterations.

For accessories, raffia is big for espadrilles and straw bags. Platform heels continue (yay, my favorite) and the bucket hat is new.

Yes, I could go on, but I wanted to give you some top trends, especially those that may be more understandable.

As always, I am here to help. Let me shop digitally for the holes in your wardrobe or the new items that will just really make you happy to have. : )

Shopping with me via Nordstrom is a complimentary service.

Ps- if nothing else, you still want to look good for those zoom calls.

From my home to your home

First I hope everyone is well and staying at home safely.

I had started a totally different note to you on March 13th and pressed the pause button as things started to ramp up with the virus. I knew there were urgent matters that you needed to be informed on and new ways of figuring out how to work from home if you are lucky enough to have that opportunity.

I have not left my apartment since March 15th and the cabin fever is starting to kick in. For those who know me well, I am a die-hard city girl, but currently envying my suburban friends who are in their backyards and taking walks.

We have all been home-bound now for approximately 2 weeks and adjusting. This also coincides really well with the change of season. Spring is officially here and the weather is currently fluctuating and transitional.

Now as the suggested stay-at-home time has been expanded to April 30th, if we are lucky, it will be early May when we can leave our homes and get back to some semblance of “normal”.

With that, your deep winter clothes are certainly no longer necessary. Keeping true to my passion and my business, my leather pants, and furry vests have already made it up into the closet not to be brought out till next winter.

As a distraction, because you have more time at home, and because you will eventually need to, now is the perfect time to start on your closet. 

I recommend doing it in 2 phases.

1) Right now it is about putting away the dead of winter items that you no longer need and pulling out some items that are spring-like but still accommodate for mid-season weather.  

For me, that includes my pastel moto jacket, some brightly colored cotton sweaters, and jeans in lighter washes.

2) Save your sundresses, white shorts or whatever your dead of summer items might be for a later closet swap.

Image courtesy of freedigitalphotos.net by Aleska D.

Now for some recommendations to make your closet organizing easier.

1. I don’t care what Marie Kondo says, throwing your whole closet on your bed is an overwhelming task. Break it down into categories: shoes, accessories, clothes. You can further break the clothes down into sub-categories. Hopefully, once you actually get started, you may find that you complete more categories than you had intended to:)

2. Purge - don’t put items you haven’t worn and aren’t going to away. Put them in a bag to donate.

3. Utilize the space in your closet well. Order the thin felted hangers which will truly save you room. Order storage containers to put on your shelves, under your bed or wherever your space allows.

4. Only relevant wearable items should be front and center in your closet. Move your outwear, special occasion dresses, out of season items to another area.

Still, need help? Contact me, I can work with you virtually.

Black. Does it Go with Everything?

Last month I talked about the power of color. This month it is about Black. Out of every Stylempower insider news I have ever written, this one consistently, years later, shows up as the most searched for and read.

I know you have not all been reading this for years or have not read every issue, so since it is clearly a topic of interest, I thought I would send out my thoughts on this again.

I have been noticing more and more that women often automatically put everything back to black as a go-to color that supposedly  "goes with everything".

Although this isn't on the official "fashion don't list",  I am here to tell you that there are better choices that will instantly make your outfit look more cohesive and stylized.

Let's look at these two outfits.

Outfit on the left:  Despite that the top has no sleeves it looks heavy (color-wise) and chops up the outfit. The outfit looks ehh - it's fine.

Outfit on the right: Despite the sweater being long sleeve and heavier fabric, it is tonal, picks up the color in the trim on the skirt and therefore keeps consistent with the softness and delicate nature of the skirt. Add a necklace and wow - it's fabulous!

Stylist Tip:  Pair pastels back to grey for a much softer look than black.

For more commentary on this outfit details as well as other Fine 2 Fab you can visit the Stylempower Fine 2 Fab page.

Another example of what I have seen people do is put a print with no black in it, back to black.

The picture on the left, with black pants, looks heavy and does not really look like an outfit, merely two piece put together.

The picture on the right shows some other options (tan, sage or dark olive) that would be better stylized back to this neutral print. The colors blend with the print better and don’t feel like a stark contrast.

Spring is on the way. As many palettes get lighter and softer, think about your pairing to black to see if it is really the best option.

Need help? Contact me, I am happy to help.

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The Power of Color

Last week I knew I had a long day ahead, with multiple activities including some time sitting in Starbucks with my laptop and a video shoot with Nordstrom.

The day before, I had been running around in heels for a big personal shopping appointment that was frankly exhausting. The next day, I just wanted to feel comfortable. But I always make a special effort to find a special dressier outfit for my video shoots. The struggle between wanting to dress up for the video and feel comfortable for the long day was real.

Then I had a thought. Did I really need to dress up for the video, or just wear something that I thought I looked and felt good in, that could also be comfortable?

Running around over the weekend, I had worn a BRIGHT yellow sweater, skinny jeans and snakeskin booties and felt cute and comfortable. Why not? I duplicated the outfit for my long day and this is what happened...

I was in Starbucks and sat down at a table with my laptop. The person across the long communal table greeted me "Diane". It was someone I knew from many, many years back.

Do you know what I thought when I left there? Thank goodness, I looked and felt cute in my bright yellow sweater. After all, this is how the person is going to see me after many years. Don't I want to feel like I looked good?

You never know when you are going to run into someone that you want to look good for. Don't regret what you looked like.

What happened later at the video shoot? I rocked it out, just as well as when I wear my other more dressed up outfits because I still felt good.

Here is the thing. Color makes me feel vibrant and I always get many compliments when I wear it. If you are able to figure out which colors work best for you, I assure you, you will get many compliments and feel vibrant too.

But that means you have to step out of your comfort zone of black and or darks and other neutrals. Know your go-to colors. They may not be bright Yellow, Orange and Fuchsia like mine are. They may be pastel or more classic red or blue or green. What makes you look and feel vibrant?

I invite you to try it. If you are squeamish about color, I recommend starting in small doses. What about a pretty color scarf near your face or a bright lipstick to perk up your dark outfit?

Try it and let me know what you think. I would love to hear your comments.

The Deal of the Decade

Happy New Year!

I want to start by welcoming you to the new decade and saying how thankful I am for all of you who have been following the Stylempower Insider news.

There are many times I go out and run into people I haven't seen in years and they tell me how much they enjoy getting the insider news. So I thank you for that!

We have all heard the expression "new year, new you". This time around it is even bigger and better since it is a new decade. 

What will you be doing new this year and decade? What are you doing to improve yourself and give yourself a little self-care?

Is this the year you get the promotion, impress a date, move, retire or simply want an organized closet and dress to feel empowered.?

Well, I have an offer you simply can't refuse!

In the history of Stylempower, I have NEVER made such a great offer,

Image from freedigitalphotos.net courtesy of stuart mille.

I am offering Closet Rejuvenation, pay as you wish. You read that right. I have never done this before, but feel that you deserve it.

Here is how it works.

1) The offer is ONLY open to claim throughout January. (Service can be scheduled for any date during or after this time).

3) The deal is ONLY open to the first 5 people to snag it.

4) The deal is open to current clients and new ones.

5) The Closet Rejuvenation is for 3 hours of service.

Ready, Set, Rejuvenate!

Fall for Fall Trends

So I know it is a little later in the season than I usually present the trends for fall, but with my exciting new endeavors, it got pushed back a little :)

Some of you may already have done your fall shopping, but I know many of you have not, or at least have not completed it yet. And further, whether you did or didn’t, many of you are not aware of the new trends of the season are and thus rely on Stylempower to give you a cheat sheet.

For those readers that are new to the insider news, my coined quote about trends is that “they are suggestions and not mandates”. Not every trend is for everybody, so pick and chose what you like, it is just good to be in the know.

Although fashion is always trying to make itself obsolete; so that you feel compelled to buy the next trend, it takes far more than a season to do so. With that, there are tons of continuing trends from both spring and from last fall and even back some seasons that are still very strong.

ANIMAL PRINTS, FUR & FAUX FUR, MENSWEAR PATTERNS, MOTORCYCLE JACKETS, OVER-SIZED DOUBLE-BREASTED BLAZERS, RUFFLES, TIERS & SHIRRING, PAPER BAG WAISTS, LEATHER & VEGAN LEATHER, UTILITARIAN DETAILS, ACCORDION PLEAT MIDI SKIRTS. and MICRO SIZED BAGS.

So if you own any of these items, continue to wear them and feel on-trend.

So, what is new?

The asymmetrical hem dress shown in numerous ways: handkerchief hems, ruffle cascades, angled and more.

Here is a gallery of some beautiful items, that are currently being shown and a list below of some of the trends that they highlight.

1) Romantic blouses, ruffles

2) Moto jacket, military buttons

3) Menswear, asymmetrical hems, cascades of ruffles

4) Utilitarian, fur trim

5) Accordion pleat, asymmetrical hem

6) Menswear pattern, bow neck

7) Denim jacket, fur trim

8) Asymmetrical hem

9) 80’s glitz, shirring

10) 80’s shoulder details

11) Fair Isle sweaters

12) Belted jackets, 80’s shoulders

Work with me to see which trends are worthwhile fitting into your fall wardrobe.

Food & Fashion - a comparison

Whenever I go to a restaurant with a certain friend, she barely looks at the menu. When the waiter comes around, she asks them what their favorite dish is. I always find it interesting as the waiter does not know the first thing about her and her tastes.

For me, if the waiter recommends a fish dish, it is not an option as I don't eat fish. And if the waiter loves the Thanksgiving special, that is too bland for my palate.

I am happy the waiter likes these items, as we all have our own tastes, but why would I ask someone I don't know, who doesn't know me for a recommendation?

On the other hand, when I can't decide between two items on the menu and the waiter’s descriptions still leave me undecided, then I will ask the waiter which they recommend between the two. Either way, it is based on two things that appeal to me, so I probably can't go wrong.

As you can see, I like comparing food to fashion: two things that I love and have strong personal tastes in. You may recall my article The Foodie Guide to Style but I am digressing.

Back to my point. This brings up a related pet peeve, that often comes up this time of year.

Well as you know, it is after labor day, fall fashions are in the stores and the September issues of the fashion magazines are out with all the trends. So far, despite that the summer is over, I love all this and love the change of seasons.

So what is the pet peeve and what does it have to do with food?

Well, all the magazine articles are not merely giving you a list of trends, but they are telling you (who they don't know the first thing about), that these are items that you must have.

Really? I find that ludicrous!

How can fashion magazines, make a blanket statement that we all have the same needs and tastes?

I love fashion and I love trends but I often look at the top 10 "must-have" trends and say "no-way," "don't like" and/or "not my style."

So bask in your personal tastes, choose what works for you and know that if you need a "waiter" who you would like to discuss all your likes and dislikes with, then I am happy to make some educated and personal recommendations from the menu.

Just reach out. Stylempower is always Style For Your Lifestyle!

Are your dogs barking?

I have previously commented that I constantly see women on the street wearing shoes that are too big. Even harder to see are the larger percentage who are actually wearing shoes that are too small. And even if we do get the right size, foot pain is constantly an issue that most women have dealt with, at least at some point in their life, if not on the regular.

One study revealed that it only takes 1 hour 6 minutes and 48 seconds for women’s feet to start hurting. Additionally, 20% of women’s feet start hurting in 10 minutes.

Problem? Sure sounds like one. What is going on?

Well basically a heel moves your weight from being evenly distributed throughout your foot, to all your weight pushed to the ball of the foot. Additionally, the ball of the foot cushions can get worn down causing further pain and issues.

Worth noting is that different women have different inclines in the arch, so one-size heel does not fit all. Women will be comfortable in differing heel heights. Also of note, sometimes flats can become painful too, making a slight heel a better option.

So what can be done?

1) STRETCH OUT YOUR SHOES with shoe trees if they feel a little tight. No shoe trees? Wear socks around the house with your shoes before wearing them out. Or stretch them by putting a bag of water inside your shoes and them place them in the freezer to expand.

2) Too late, FEET HURT. When you come home, plunge them in a bath of ice water to reduce the swelling

3) PREVENT PAIN or RESCUE FROM THE PAIN - tape your 3rd and 4th toes together. There is a nerve that sits in between them. This will take the pressure off the nerve.

Kelly Samuels

Here are buy-able remedies.

1) Got shoes that give you blisters? Rub deodorant, soap, or blister blockers on the area that is rubbing. It will create a barrier and glide smoothly.

2) You can buy Shoe stretch liquid at your local cobbler.

3) Still standing foot spay. Use before and carry in your bag. It will prevent inflammation.

Now for some brands that are talking to these issues

1) Ally Shoes “heels minus the pain”

2) Check out Margaux shoes in a variety of sizes and widths designed for comfort and style

Please note that I have not tried these brands nor am I making a commission or getting any other benefits from them. I am merely collecting information I thought would be useful to my readers.

With that, I would love to hear from you. If you try these brands or remedies, please tell me what you think so I can report to my readers and customers with additional info.

Strut on comfortably!

Are You Complicating Things?

We all know that women have many options of clothing to choose from. This gives us more opportunity to create a personal style, but it can also make things complicated and overwhelming.

Let’s think about the girl who is a “tomboy” growing up. It could have been you, your daughter, a friend growing up or your friend’s daughter. Many girls go through a stage where they only want to wear pants. And despite how the mom may argue with her, the girl at this time of her life has made a style decision.

So what happens when there is a special event and the girl is supposed to dress up? Well, one of two things happen.

1) Depending on what exactly the event is, who is throwing it and how young the girl is, she may be able to get away with not wearing a dress.

Often though, what happens is the second thing.

2) The mother forces the little girl to wear the dress which she is miserable about.

The good news here…

We are now all grown-up and can actually make the decisions on what we want to wear.

So are we sometimes forcing ourselves to wear things that we don’t really want to?

Why do we do this and are there other options?

Image from freedigitalphotos.net by Stuart Miles

Yes, usually there are other options.  In most cases, we may be thinking we have to buy and own things from every category. The truth is, that if there is a category or two that doesn’t suit you, chances are there are ways around it.

 Let’s go back to the special occasion. If you as an adult don’t want to wear a dress you don’t have to. That is right, you heard me. If you are going to a dressy event and you don’t like wearing dresses, there are options for wearing pants and adding shoes, jewelry bags and other accessories to the outfit that will make it very appropriate for a special occasion. So if you don’t like wearing dresses, simply don’t wear them. (One advantage to being an adult) 

I was never a fan of shorts. But as a kid going to camp, I had no choice. Many years ago, it hit me; I really don’t need to seek out purchasing new shorts. The bulk of the summer, I can wear pants or dresses and pretty much avoid shorts. I do keep around a few pairs for active sporty events or sitting in grass etc. However, shorts are no longer an item on my summer shopping list.

Similarly, I was recently working with a client who was looking for some cropped summer pants. She is a difficult fit, because her tummy is a much larger proportion than her legs. In the winter she does well with leggings which can stretch and cling accordingly. So when she told me she was on the look out for summer pants, I proposed to her the question. Did she really want summer pants because it was a category that she thought she needed, or would she be equally happy to instead focus on some breezy summer dresses which would be an easier fit for her?

Now this is just food for thought. She may have some summer tops that she loves and hence want the pants to go with them. Wait could we look for skirts instead? Maybe she loves pants and that is fine too, we will seek out some that will work for her.

But the point is, if there is a category you struggle with, present yourself with the question, is this a category I need in my wardrobe or do I just feel some how obligated to own things in all categories.? 

You might be relieved to find that you have one less category to shop for.

Don’t make these 7 fashion faux pas this summer

There are plenty of fashion faux pas people make all year long, but some are directly related or more visible in summer clothing. So I thought now would be a good time for you to be aware of them and make any corrections as needed.

Let's start with foundation pieces.

1) Many bras now, no matter what your size, have molded cups included. When you are wearing a tight tee-shirt and you can clearly see the outline of the entire molded cup, chances are your bra is too big, causing the cups to stand away from your body.

Sometimes you will be able to see the edge of your bra cutting across your boob. In this case, the cup size is probably too small and your boobs are overflowing the cup.

Also, in the bra-world, make sure that you have a smooth bra on for these clingy tee shirts. Lacy bras will cause bumps and not lay smoothly.

Now let's talk about bra straps.

2) I am not being prim and proper here when I say that I can not stand bra straps hanging out. A slight peek on a top that doesn't always cover entirely, is no big deal. What really bothers me is when someone is wearing a designed top, such as a racerback, with a regular bra.

Please get with the program here. The racerback is a design detail that is marred by additional straps. Racerback bras are just as easy to wear as regular bras and everyone should have at least one in their wardrobe if they are going to wear a top that calls for it.

Similarly, if you have a halter top, make sure that you have a bra that adjusts to this style.  Ditto for any other styles that may call for bras to be adjusted to hide the straps.

Also notice the color of your bra. No dark bras under light tops. Best to match close to the color or go with a nude bra.

Now I am jumping to another pet peeve of mine. Shoes.

3) Ladies, why is it that I see so many of you with shoes that are clearly too big on you? I don't know how you walk in them without your feet slipping out. I don't know what you do in the winter with your boots because I can't see it. But when you have a shoe, like a pump, where your heel is clearly not touching the back of the shoe and you can almost fit your finger in there, it is clearly too big. Yes, you look like the little girl below in her mom's shoes.

Image from InStyle magazine

To continue with shoes.

4) Sometimes I see women in light flirty sundresses with more serious closed-toe shoes and frankly, it looks weird. Light flowy summer dresses are best with sandals or some kind of open shoes.

Your career summer dresses, you will continue to wear with more corporate and possibly closed shoes, but keep your casual summery dresses light and fun. This will also apply to summery cocktail dresses. No pumps please.

Now I know you know this, but I will just put it out there as a “don't”.

5) Should you choose to wear leggings, please wear a top that covers your crotch.

Circling back to the strap concept... well kind of.
 
6) Just as bra straps can interfere with the clean lines and design of a garment so can adding jewelry. Although not a true fashion "rule", another pet peeve of mine is when I see women wearing one-shouldered tops/dresses with a necklace. Please let this clean line speak for itself and don's distract the eye. Opt for earrings instead.

The same can be said for necklaces that interfere with other designed necklines like halters or keyholes and also with other design details such as ruffles or buttons that the necklace might compete with.

And last but definitely not least. 

7) The number one fashion rule, any time of the year, not to break is to be AUTHENTIC. There is nothing worse than someone looking or feeling like they don't belong. Remember your clothing is meant to empower you, not deflate you.

Still confused about if what you are wearing works? Reach out to me, I can help.

Now & Later

So I hate to be a hater, but…

And everyone is entitled to an opinion, but…

And fashion rules are now being broken, but…

OK, so let me explain. As I was recently reading my Instyle magazine, I saw a spread about fashion for now and for later. Now I love mileage out of a multi-seasonal item, but not everything works!

And even if some items can work for more than one season, I think this spread looks like a bunch of fashion don’ts. And if the models, in a professional fashion shoot look bad, you can only imagine how the woman who is not “model-like” might look.

I have already talked to you about THE OTHER 1%, who are fashionistas, purposely breaking all the old rules and are the rare few who can get away with it.

So let’s dig into this spread, so I can explain to you why I think these styling choices are not good options.

Instyle Magazine

This spring dress looks great with the open toe sandals. A denim or other light weight jacket could be added for a little extra warmth on a cool spring day. Cute!

What is wrong with the NOW?

The cardigan isn’t bad (I could split hairs, but won’t) and I do love the belt for extra styling and shape definition, but the heavy black books, look just that, heavy. Since the dress is full, you don’t want a full slouch boot. Something that clings to the legs would be better to give her more shape, but then you still have the heavy dark color; so this dress is just not great with tall dark boots.

Instyle Magazine

Once again the LATER outfit looks cute, but “oh my!” I think this lady got swallowed up in the NOW. This is a major proportion issue and would be especially worse if you are petite and / or fuller. You are working with an over-sized blazer, so unless you are the “one percent” you are best to stick to the rule of proportion; when one item is full the other should be slim.

Actually, we just referenced that above with the boots. You need to see some part of a women’s shape underneath or you can risk looking larger with all of the fabric.

So not only should her pants not be so full but they should not be cropped. A long pant would serve to elongate her and not truncate her. And then adding sneakers to this only serves to make it worse. Please add some kind of heel to carry all this volume of fabric.

Instyle Magazine

The LATER is adorable. Light weight dress and light colors are perfect for spring. Please don’t break out this dress and do what the stylist did here in the NOW. This dress is not made to wear a turtle neck under. Dark color, heavy fabric, all underneath just looks terrible; too heavy and out of season for the dress.  Again a denim jacket or other light weight jacket on top would look adorable. In this case the coloring in the boots is OK, but still shows little leg shape and looks bulky. Please wait to wear this dress till it is warm.

Instyle Magazine

In this last case, I actually like the NOW much better than the LATER. The colors are mid-tone and it is long sleeves and looks great with jeans boots and leather jacket for the cool transitional season days. Although the LATER is not the worst outfit, it is not the best either. In this case the blouse looks too fall-ish and too dressy for the shorts. For these light neutral shorts, you are much better off with a blouse in a breezy fabric in lighter colors (similar to the dress above).

I am interested to hear what you have to say. What do you think of these outfits?  Hit reply and let me know your thoughts.

#Styleinpiration (and tips)

I am sure you have a lot of fun events on your calendar this season and are wondering what to wear. Well, of course, it is going to depend on the details of the event and your personal style.

I have put together some looks for you. Perhaps you will love the looks, perhaps you will love individual pieces or perhaps you will find inspiration.

I am also including some styling tips, which I hope you find helpful.

(All looks are shoppable, click on the image for details)

This look is great for a bridal or baby shower, date or after work event.

STYLIST TIP - Make the look more casual (maybe for brunch), by changing the shoes to espadrille sandals and adding a denim jacket.

This outfit is great for a business casual office or a casual Friday in a more formal office.

STYLIST TIP - For those afraid of pattern mixing, this is a great way to do it. The pattern on the jacket and the shoes are both small and subtle and separated by the solid jeans.

Are you speaking at an event or have a big client meeting? This outfit with its clean lines and bold color will have a great impact.

STYLIST TIP - The circles in the earrings mirror the shape of the round bag and everything has a clean and bold mod look.

Going on vacation or just dreaming of those hot summer days in July and August?

STYLIST TIP - To maintain the earthy feeling, keep the look neutral in colors and keep your accessories “organic” looking with materials like wood and raffia.

For that opening party event, big birthday bash or non-traditional wedding - go bold!

STYLIST TIP - Keep it tonal with an array of warm vibrant colors. The earrings subtly tie the colors back to each other.

I hope you got some great ideas or at least enjoyed the eye-candy. For more help please contact me. I have a spring promo going on now.

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Excavation

We are going to do a little archaeology dig in your closet, analyze the “skeletons” we find, and try to identify the targeted holes in your wardrobe. We are also going to identify areas where you might be wasting money on the wrong purchases.

Now I am well aware that everyone has different wardrobe needs, but I thought by telling you a few client stories, this might help identify some of your own issues.

THE HOLES

One great example is Renee, who had purchased various black bottoms - skirts and pants, with different lengths and details. Although all black, they were uniquely different and served different purposes. So one might think: "black goes with everything so she will be able to get great use out of these pieces.”

Well, first of all, I do not think that black is best with everything. If you want to know more about that, you can read  DOES BLACK GO WITH EVERYTHING?

But matching was not the issue. The problem was that these were career pieces and when we looked in her closet, she had bulky sweaters, casual tees etc. and very few career tops. So this was her hole.

Similarly I worked with another woman who had numerous printed tops, which looked great with jeans, but she could not wear jeans to work. Her hole was that she was missing bottoms in various solids to wear with these tops.

MY PERSONAL HOLE IN THE WARDROBE

I hate to wear flats. I know many of you cannot relate, but bear with me to get the concept of the story. So when I put on casual wear such as stylized tee shirts and sweatshirts, I pulled out my pointy-toe kitten heels (my version of “flats”) but the outfits just weren't working.

For others, I might recommend the slip on sneakers that are ubiquitous, but when I put them on, they just don’t look good, they are not my style and I don’t feel empowered. This was the hole in my wardrobe. I finally found a unicorn; it was a high platform, pointy toe, slip on sneaker with ombre sequins. They are perfect and I love them. However, they are bold and black and they don’t go with everything. So I still have a hole in my wardrobe and am on the hunt for the sister unicorn in a neutral like olive or pinkish tan.

What are your holes? What are the missing pieces you need to take your outfits from Fine 2 Fab?

On the flip side, are you wasting money on some of your purchases?

WASTED $ ON PURCHASES

I just had a conversation with a woman who loves black boots. Don’t we all? She was telling me that each black boot she owns has a different design detail. For instance a biker style on one and studs all over the other. In this case the design details are not enough to differentiate the boots if they serve the same purpose. So if the boots have different heel heights, some are ankle and some are high, some cling like a sock and others are for tucking your pants in, one is for bad weather, then yes, by all means, they are worthwhile. But if the biker boot and the studded boot can be worn with the same things, then you are wasting money on redundancy.

Speaking of redundancy, have you seen the short video on my closet rejuvenation page? I didn’t know what I would find in Margaret’s closet when she agreed to be videoed. What I found was that she liked brightly colored sweaters, which may be okay, but they were all similar styles and weights. So if she had owned a variety of different sweaters such as turtlenecks, cables, cardigans, interesting sleeves etc. and they were all bright, they would be different enough to own many and the different styles would serve different purposes, But instead she owned too much of the same type which just ends up being a waste of money.

So in summation, I will say that your wardrobe needs to be a balance of 4 categories.

1) Work wear - Since you will probably be wearing this five times a week this should be a large piece of your wardrobe pie.

2) Casual / off-duty wear - If you are only wearing this on your “weekends” then it is a smaller part of your wardrobe. If your work wear is more casual, there may be cross-over or if you work from home or work in an extremely casual environment then this may be combined with category 1.

3) Dressy clothes - this includes cocktail to black-tie and should be a small percentage of your wardrobe.

4) Going out clothes - this is probably slightly larger than your dress clothes, but not too large. Bonus if you can cross-over say a dressy top from your dressy wear and wear it with jeans to go out.

Hopefully, these examples of my clients and personal situation will give you an idea of the holes you may have in your wardrobe, especially dressy vs. casual pieces.

If you have figured it out, this will give you targeted pieces to look for when you go shopping.

If you need to go deeper with your excavation, contact me - I would love to help you out.

A dressy dress does not look good with everyday shoes and bag.

It happened on Saturday...

Well it is April and Saturday’s weather was just what I needed to say, “enough with the fur, wool, down coats and other winter clothing. I am ready to break out my spring wardrobe”.

What are the new trends out there?

It is up to me as your style resource to fill you in. And for those that have been with me for a while, you know I always say that “trends are suggestions and not mandates”.

I supply the information, you make the decisions. How does that sound?

FABRICS & THEMES

The new hottest theme for spring is utility. This includes tops and bottoms with various cargo pockets, as well as straps, tabs and belts. The boiler suit is the newest jumpsuit. Leather is all over the place for spring, both in traditional neutrals and more spring-like colors. Crochet and netting are used in dresses, tops and dusters. Arts & crafty clothing continue the boho vibe. Feathers and fringe are still popular adornments. Re-worked versions of denim continue with patchwork, fraying, new washes and more.

SILHOUETTES

Easily wearable pieces include pleated skirts, cardigans and paper-bag waist pants. After all this athleisiure (which is still strong), there is a return to more structured suiting and sophistication. However, the bike short is back. Joggers and baggy denim are some of the new casual looks. As always, trenches show up for spring. Tech-y fabrics like parachute materials are the new casual versions of light weight outerwear.

Click on the image to shop these looks. - Utility, cargo, paper-bag waist, trenches and pleated skirts

COLORS

Head to toe tan / beige neutrals are a thing; great for the classic minded and now it is trendy. On the flip side of the coin, vibrant colors are also a thing. Brightly colored suiting or just a bright item paired back to a neutral. Living Coral is the color of the year. Bright yellow is also a huge color trend.

PRINTS & PATTERNS

One of the biggest patterns of the season is the bandanna print, including more multi-colored versions of paisley prints and scarf prints with panels and borders. Tie-dye is back. Mixing prints and patterns in one garment continue. Gingham and tropical will be favorites in the true summer months.

SHOES

The slide is still in, but flip-flops have made a return. The white flat tennis sneaker such as Stan Smith’s have been rampant. These continue, but the new trendy sneaker is now the clunky trainer sneaker. For those who like comfort the sporty sandals are in. The dressy - sexier sandal is the floss strap sandals. And for fun, try a sculptured heel or printed shoe.

Click on the image to shop these styles.

ACCESSORIES

Hair accessories are big this season, especially fun barrettes and stuffed fabric headbands. Seashells adorn everything from shoes, to bags to jewelry.

BAGS

Mico bags and super over-sized totes are both new. Top handle bags, belt bags and chain straps continues. Try a straw bag for summer.

Click on the image to shop these styles.

That is a wrap for your overview of some of the many trends this season. If you need help shopping for anything, just let me know.

HAPPY SPRING, HAPPY SHOPPING!

Sunnies and more...

Well, Spring is here (at least they say).

Unfortunately, I think we will still be wearing those winter coats and sweaters for a while longer. (More about that in a little.)

However, I don’t think it is a bad idea to start strategizing about some of your purchases.

And so with that, I would like to let you in on which Spring months will provide the best deals on what items.

MARCH

Now is a great time to buy sunglasses. There are more styles on sale in March than any other month. And what I love on top of the deals, is that you can actually start wearing them immediately!

Wayfarers and aviators are classics. If you are looking for some new fun styles, I put together some great options. (And if you like, just click on the image, they are all shoppable).

Click on the image to shop these styles

APRIL
Many of the big department stores and some of the online resources are offering Friends & Family discounts. So make sure to take advantage of these great deals.

MAY

Although, you may be thinking Spring clothes, May is a great time to get discounts on coats, suits, formal dresses, lingerie and handbags.

If you are ready to “dive-in,” you are in luck with swimwear prices taking a “plunge.” And of course, don’t forget about those Memorial Day sales.

Click on the image to shop these styles

In the last Stylempower insider news, I asked you to tell me about some of your wardrobe issues. I got a reply that I think resonates with many of us at this time of year, and I want to share it with you:

“I'm tired of the same few winter sweaters.”

See what I have to say to that below.

Make the sweaters look a little different by:

Accessorizing

- Try a belt. Best on thinner sweaters as thick ones may make you look thick.

- Play around with fashion scarves (indoor scarves).

- Wear a great necklace.

Layering

- Wear a collared button down under your sweater and let the hem and cuffs stick out. You can also add the necklace or belt with this.

- Wear a blazer or jacket over a thin sweater.

- Wear a vest over a thin sweater – some outerwear vests can also be worn as indoor clothing. Check to see if you have any that will work.

- Cardigans can be belted too.

And something that I did not tell her, but I am adding now.

Un-layering

- Wear a button-down cardigan as a sweater with nothing under it.

And of course looking on the bright side. This makes looking forward to our Spring wardrobe that much more exciting.

And as always, if you need help, shopping for those great finds or re-inventing your wardrobe, reach out to me for help.

Let Me Help You With Your Spring Wardrobe

We are in the  homestretch of this cold weather. Soon we will be starting to wear our Spring clothes, YAY!

The magazines and stores have already started in with Spring fashions. (My Spring trend report to come as soon as we all get a little bit of that Spring Fever in the air).

So here I am prepping for how I can help you with your Spring wardrobe. I have a few questions. I will not make you click on a survey link to open them. I want you to see how super quick this survey is.

And by answering these questions you will be helping YOU and helping ME :)

I will answer you directly and/ or your questions may be the topic of an future insider news.

BONUS -  For everyone who replies, you will also get a FREE
Your Best Look Express.

1) When I open my closet, I think _____________.

2) What type of event/activity (everyday or special occasion) gives you the hardest time to get dressed for?

3) What is your biggest wardrobe issue?

4) If you had the opportunity to ask a stylist one question, what would it be?

That is it.
Not so bad, right?

Did I miss anything? Feel free to write me back with another question that didn't fit into my survey.

I am looking forward to helping you to feel empowered in your Spring wardrobe.

But you don't have to wait till Spring. Need help now? Contact me :)

I have a confession...

Well before I flat out tell you, I would like to start with a related client story.

One day I was going through my client Marla’s coat closet and she pulled out a fabulous leopard raincoat and said “I love this coat, it makes me feel like a million bucks.” I asked her how often she wore it, and she said “not very often.” My reply was “why not? Don’t you want to feel like a million bucks all the time, or at least more often?”

Further, you don’t only want to own one “million dollar coat”. The goal is that all, or almost all of the coats in your closet will make you feel that way. And from there, it is not only about coats, but to create a wardrobe that makes you feel that empowered!!!

No, I am not recommending that you immediately dump the bulk of your closet all at once, and that is not where I am going with this story.

So, here is my story.
(BTW - It’s a total coincidence that they are both regarding coats; the coat is symbolic of any piece in your wardrobe that makes you feel like a million bucks.)

You see, I had a coat in my closet that I have been on the fence about for a few seasons. It was truly a fun and unique coat that definitely served a specific purpose in my wardrobe (long, neutral and winter weight).

Because I felt the coat needed more umph, I added my own belt to make it cooler and more stylized. Yet, despite the fact that I really did like the coat and got a few compliments on it, it was not making me feel like a million bucks.

OK, so now is the confession part of the story.

Most of you know that I have an ebook “How to Stop Closet Overwhelm & Actually Have Something to Wear”, which gives advice on how you can feel good about getting rid of things that you are on the fence about.

In my ebook, I reference donating the piece you are on the fence about to an organization that helps underprivileged women get back on their feet and obtain jobs they so desperately need:

If you have that extra blazer hanging in your closet amongst the slew of other blazers you own and you're sort of on the fence about it, wouldn't it feel great to donate that to a woman who would cherish it? You might help her get the job she really needs and improve her life.

So one day, I finally took my own advice and walked that coat over to donate. About a month or two later, I opened my closet and realized that I wasn’t really missing the coat and although it did fit specific needs, I was able to find and utilize other coats that did make me feel like a million bucks until I find that “million dollar replacement.”

It then made me think, I am pretty sure that there is a woman walking around New York in my old coat and not only is she warm, but I am also willing to bet that she feels like a million bucks in it. :) .

How To Get Bang for Your Buck

Recently I was fortunate to do a collaboration project with Hipsilver. They challenged me to take a simple black dress that they sell and create outfits for multiple occasions.

Of course I was up for the project and just love to accessorize!

Prior to shooting the video, I rummaged through our volunteer’s closets to utilize what she already owned to create these looks.

Here is an excerpt from their blog.

"Ever feel you wear the same suit of clothes every single day? Ever wonder if you’ve made the most of your wardrobe? At HipSilver, we pondered how to make the best of a single dress. To this end, we enlisted the aid of Diane Pollack of Stylempower fame to show us how to make the most of our HipSilver closets....

...Diane did not disappoint. She mixed and matched the simple, black dress with various HipSilver accessories "

Below you will find the full video. For the full write-up and the video broken down into mini videos, you can go HERE.

Opening Party

Last week, my husband told me that he got an invitation to an opening party for a restaurant. He was not able to make it and suggested I invite a friend.

The event was the following evening and he noted to me that the invitation said cocktail attire. Now I always love a good event to have an excuse to dress up for, so I was excited. (I am not going to kid you, I also love the free drinks and food).

I thought about the options in my closet and decided on a one sleeve, off the shoulder black top with a silver sequin decorated black skirt.

STYLIST TIP #1 - Try to always have something in your closet for a last minute invite to an event.

STYLIST TIP #2 - If you don’t, don’t panic. A basic, dress, jumpsuit or even separates that you may wear to work, can be jazzed up. Black is usually a safe bet. Here is where accessories are key. Pull out those fancy shoes, jewelry and/or bag and make day-wear festive.

I met my friend that evening to go to the event and noticed that she was wearing what I would call office casual attire.

Our outfits were drastically different.

I said that I thought that the invite said “cocktail attire” and she remembers something like “dress well”. UH-OH!

As we traveled downtown, we tried to open the invite on our phones and were not able to do so.

Who was going to be dressed properly and who was not?

It turns out, the invite did say cocktail attire, which frankly, I too might not have noticed, had my husband not mentioned it when passing off the invite to me.

My friend was not wrong either as she had seen at the end of the note, that the sender had written “dress well”. Turns out, that was just his sign off and it would be as if I had written “stay empowered” or something similar.

As the crowd started to fill in, one thing became apparent, there were people in cocktail attire and people who were a lot more casual like my friend.

STYLIST TIP #3 - No matter where you go, there is always a range of appropriate attire. Just don’t go outside that range and whatever you wear should be fine.

STYLIST TIP #4 - This event was not a traditional event such as a wedding or business related cocktail party. Therefore, you have even more range to be creative with your attire. Wear that jumpsuit or fun piece of jewelry that you are never quite sure when to wear it.

STYLIST TIP #5 - Whatever you put on, make sure you feel great in it. “Stay empowered!”

Need help with your next event outfit? Contact me and I am happy to help.

FUR- Real

Back in the day, a fur coat was a woman’s fashion staple - both luxurious and warm. But many years ago, we were made aware of how many animals it took to face a cruel death in order for people to stroll around in these fancy coats.

Remember when PETA started throwing red paint on them?

We are now even more aware, and many people consciously choose not to wear fur for these reasons.

Very recently, many of the top luxury brands (Gucci, Burberry, Channel, Versace, Chole and many more) have made a commitment to go fur-free.

Even cities are taking a stand; Los Angeles is now the largest city taking steps to ban fur.

Fortunately, we now have technology to create beautiful looking faux furs. Some are hard to distinguish the fake from the real and it has become perfectly acceptable and even trendy to wear fun faux furs of varies colors and patterns.

As you can imagine, this is bad news for the fur industry and their livelihood. They have created an entire marketing campaign that suggests that real fur is better than fake fur.

Wait What?

Read on to hear their surprising twist on the controversy.

The Real Fur campaign as seen in Women’s Wear Daily

Fur advocates say that in this fast fashion world, inexpensive faux fur is used for trendy items and quickly disposed of when that trend is over..

What happens then?

The faux fur is not Eco-friendly, it is made of plastic materials that clogs up land-fills.

Fur proponents state that fur items can be cherished family heirlooms, passed on from generations (sometime re-worked and updated).

When real fur is disposed of, it is totally bio-degradable. One real fur advocate, had this to say in Women’s Wear Daily: Fur is the “ultimate free-range, organic and locally sourced clothing material,”

Real fur advocates have launched multiple campaigns, including the ones pictured. Their hashtags: #GETREAL #SHOPNATURAL

Furthermore government regulations are getting stricter to monitor and oversee the supply chain of fur for transparency. New regulations are being enforced regarding the treatment and slaughter of fur providing animals.

Personally, I think they just need to work on bio-degradable faux fur which would then make the fur industry’s point mute.

So I am curious to hear from you.

What do you think? What would you choose?

Is existing fur (from a thrift shop or hand-me-down) acceptable, but new fur purchase not?

What about shearing? What about leather?

The campaign for real fur as seen in Women’s Wear Daily