Why I have never given myself a Closet Rejuvenation

It’s a little funny, don’t you think? Closet rejuvenation is the foundation of what I do, yet I’ve never actually given myself one.

Have you ever noticed how the smallest things can pile up and turn into big projects? Like when you toss your clothes on a chair at the end of the day, and before you know it, the pile is staring at you for a week (or longer)?

This of course could happen with anything not just clothes—it’s a project waiting to happen.

Here is a non-clothes example. My husband used to let mail pile up in a messy stack. Some opened, some unopened, some just junk. Eventually, it became this giant mountain of paper he had to sit down and tackle. Thankfully, we’ve got a system in place now, and things have definitely improved.

I’m sure there are a million examples of things we put off and leave lying around, only for them to transform into a project that we’d rather avoid but have to deal with eventually.

So, here’s the easy answer: If you’re too tired to put your clothes away right when you take them off, I get it. But if you just take two minutes the next morning to put them away, it’s done in no time and doesn’t become a big project.

The same goes for mail. If you don’t open it immediately, just set aside 5 minutes that day or the next to sort through it—toss the junk (excuse me, recycling), and sort what’s important. Now, it’s out of the way.

Simple, right?

Now how can we implement this in our closet?

This is exactly how I approach my closet. If I pull something down for the season or wear it once and think, “I’m done with this,” it goes straight into the giveaway bag. Takes two seconds, then when the bag gets full, it’s gone. Rinse and repeat.

Of course, there are those pieces that you’re not quite sure about. I get that too. Not everything is black and white. Like I remember having these black boots—the zipper broke, and they were my go-to pair. When I replaced them, I picked a trendier style. The old ones weren’t necessarily outdated, but it wasn’t till they broke that I realized I preferred something newer. There wasn’t a bold flashing light that had said “Needs to be replaced and updated” before it broke.

I’ll admit it—I like being organized (whether it’s with to-do lists or in my closet) to feel organized in my life. I’m the type who gets rid of things right away when I’m done with them. I don’t let returns sit around, and if I borrow a book and finish it, I like to return it immediately.

And yes, I love clothes and styling outfits—it’s a priority for me!

But maybe you’re not the type who feels the urgent need to organize or declutter. Maybe your closet isn’t at the top of your to-do list (though, wouldn’t it be nice if it were magically organized, with only clothes and outfits you absolutely love to wear?).

That’s exactly why I do what I do. I’m here to help if this isn’t your thing, if you need a little push, or if you’re not sure what to keep and what to toss. I can also offer guidance on outfits that make getting dressed feel easy and effortless.

If you need help, don’t hesitate to reach out. Now, if someone could help me with my taxes, that’s an area I don’t have an interest in tackling! 😊

What's in for Fall 2024?

Well, it is that time of year again. 

Now I know that many of you do not like the word trend or trendy. But you do want to feel fresh and updated, right?

And many trends are also classics, can you say “trench coat, ballet flats, stripes, Red…”?

For those new to STYLEMPOWER, I always say that “trends are suggestions and not mandates”. I love a good trend. And there are also plenty that are a hard “no” for me.

So, read on to know what is happening this season. From there you can figure out what works for you and what you want to add to your wardrobe to update it.

OUTWEAR – Scarf coats, capes, barn jackets, trenches, longline coats, Pea coats, big fur, leather, suede & shearling.

PANTS– Wide leg, barrel shape, straight leg, cuffed denim, Capri pants, tailored shorts (try them with a matching blazers for a modern take on suiting).

SKIRTS – Longer more modest lengths. Don’t worry, minis have not gone away. A-line skirts. Pleated skirts are both classic and on-trend. Some even combo the pleats with flat fabric to create a more updated version.

TOPS –  Ladylike Boucle Jackets, and feminine bow blouses. Classic Fair Isle sweaters. In contrast: sexy off-the-shoulder tops and sweaters and modern asymmetrical necklines.

Images from Nordstrom, fall styles. To see the full styleboard and purchase, click on the image.

SHOES – Pointy toe for all style shoes. Not only is it sexy, but it elongates your leg. Loafers continue, choose from the classic to the edgier platform or lug sole. Also under preppy classics are Oxford and Derby shoes. And those ballet flats and Mary Janes are great for the transitional weather. Wedges are showing up. T-straps are becoming more prominent. Boots & Booties a big "YES".

BAGS -  Suede bags, bowling bags, top handles, and slouchy boho, to name a few.

PATTERNS – Heritage checks and plaids that always look good in wooly fabrications. And then something that never goes out of style, but is coming in strong this fall is the Leopard print.

FABRIC– Sheers are still going strong. Corduroy, suede, and satin. Velvet and metallic will come in for the holiday season.

DETAILS – Bows, lace, studs, fringe, shearling, and fur trim.

COLORS include – Red, Burgundy, Olive, Brown, Rusts, Deep Plum, Teal, and surprisingly pastels. Look for Butter Yellow as a new one.

ACCESSORIES – Belts are back to highlight the waist. The classic pearls are back in new iterations. Earrings are modern bold and chunky. The necklace on the satin cord is back.

THEMES – Feminine details, Preppy styles like rugby tops, twinsets, and pencil skirts. Western shows up in shirting, boots, and fringe details. The English Country theme combines boho & prep styles. 60's styles are mod. Utility also continues for that effortlessly casual look. The grampa sweater becomes more eclectic (think mixed with 80’s bold patterns). Mob Wife glam, combines, furs, animal prints & stilettos. Quiet luxury vs Day Glam, you choose.
 
It’s a lot and I probably missed some.  Read on to get my stylist tips on how to incorporate these into your wardrobe.

Images from Nordstrom, fall styles. To see the full styleboard and purchase, click on the image.

STYLIST TIPS

• Don’t get rid of your classic prints and patterns like polka dots, stripes, and leopards.  They are timeless unless they have a very specific silhouette that would date them.

• Wear a monochromatic color head-to-toe for a clean and sophisticated look.

• Sheers are sex and they can be worn by anyone and even to the office. Layer your look: for tops, you can wear a vest with sheer sleeves or have the sheer hem sticking out below an outer layer. For skirts you will do the same with the hem, it will just have a shorter lining so the sheerness shows at the bottom. If you don’t want to style these sheer pieces, look for pieces already designed with strategic sheerness for coverage.

• Why not try a pair of brown jeans to update your casual wardrobe for the season?

• If you wore the vests solo in the warmer weather, layer them with a thin knit or shirting for the colder weather (seasonal fabric permitting).

• A great way to add more style to an item that comes with a self-fabric belt. Swap out the belt for one of your own.

Want more stylist tips? Contact me, I would love to chat and help you with your wardrobe questions.

I am addicted

I just love it when I buy an item because I think it is cool, I wear it for years and then it shows up as a trend.

For instance, my friend Sima designed a tiered fringe jacket years ago that I always get compliments on. And then a few years ago fringe was everywhere and the jacket became trendy.

Then there is the silver metallic leather jacket I bought a million years ago at a Vivienne Tam sample sale. It was just a cool jacket that I was smart enough to hold on to and wear regularly throughout the years.

Fast forward to current times and metallic leathers have become trendy and this has become my ADDICTION! I want everything possible in silver metallic.

In retrospect, It is no surprise that I chose silver leather yarmulke for my wedding 16 years ago.

So the thing is, you can’t keep buying the same thing and have a wardrobe full of silver metallic leather unless…

Here is the key to feeding your addiction without purchasing multiple unnecessary items in your wardrobe.

So as silver metallic became a trend (in both leathers and denim) I wanted it ALL. I bought a cocktail dress, puffer, moto jacket, and a denim skirt. My shoe collection includes sneakers, pumps, sandals and booties.  Oh yes and, I have had multiple silver handbags throughout the years; also before they became trendy.

The last item that I had to really think about before buying was another jacket. This one was a silver denim-style jacket. Similar in weight to the leather blazer. Here is what I reviewed and why I decided I could own it too.

1)     The denim jacket is cropped, and the blazer covers my rear.

2)     The denim jacket has a boxy fit, and the blazer is fitted and nipped at the back waist

3)     The denim jacket is casual, and the blazer is more elevated.

All of this saying it was OK to purchase, not redundant.

So you may be saying “Metallic leathers and denim are not my thing, so who cares what Diane owns?” The point here is how you can assess things that you may be addicted to so that you don’t end up with redundancies in your wardrobe.

Believe me, I have worked in so many clients’ closets that have multiple items with no differentiating factors. And often these items are black pants or black boots.  Are you now saying “Oh yes, that sounds more like me?”

For pants, you should consider the fabric and leg shape. to see if there is enough reason to have the various options. For boots, you should review the heel, height, and shape, as well as, the shaft height.   If the pants or boots have any special design details or trim, that is a great differentiating factor.

This type of assessment goes for things you already own that you could possibly get rid of duplicates, and for things you want to purchase and struggle to figure out if you really need it because you have something similar.

These are examples that I hope will be helpful for you. And if you still need help, please reach out. I would be thrilled to aide in your stylempowerment :)

Spring Trends 2024

Happy Spring my Stylempower Insider!
 
Even if there is still a chill in the air, it is time for Spring shopping.

If you are new here welcome! My OG readers know that every Spring and Fall when I send out the season’s trend list, I always present it with my coined caveat: “Trends are suggestions and not mandates.” I want to make my readers feel in the know, to make the best choices for themselves.

Every season there are a ton of trends to hear about, however, I don’t think there was ever a season where one trend stood out way above the others. So let’s start from the bottom – Shoes.

The trend that is all over, in every shape and form is the MARY JANE. Some reminiscent of our little girl party shoe days and some with a heel. Some with color, bling, trim, and even in mesh.

A few seasons ago the BALLET FLAT came back and it is still going strong. Many of the styles of the Mary Jane are ballet flats plus a strap. So there are plenty of options to choose from and very wearable styles for all.

April showers are coming our way and when you think of Spring, you think of rain or trench coats. What looks new this season is the CROPPED TRENCH.

Another classic is the STRIPE. Even though we have seen it for years, it somehow looks fresh for Spring. Some are true classics, especially in Navy and White, and some are playing around with stripes directions for a fun update.

Everything mentioned so far is pretty classic. And going along with the classics is PREPPY School style. Think cardigans, vests, school jackets, and plaid.

The WIDE LEG, STRAIGHT LEG, FLARE, KICK FLARE, and CARGOS are all still strong silhouettes for Spring. But what is the surprising newness in pant shapes? 

It will probably be gradual, but you will start seeing CAPRI pants and BERMUDA SHORTS styles back in the mix. Even if you are not ready for them (yet), these are very wearable and flattering styles.

And the newest and trendiest of the shapes is the BARREL LEG. This style has a lot of volume and may not be the most flattering on many.

Remember those DENIM MIDI and MAXI SKIRTS we talked about? Those too are continuing. They are a nice alternative to jeans you can wear throughout all seasons.

And my favorite addiction, I mean trend, is SILVER. We have seen a lot of silver leather, puffers, etc. As we transition into Spring, Silver denim is such a fun look in pants, jackets, skirts, and dresses. I might own them all, but more on that another time.

Other trends that continue: SHAPED WAIST JACKETS with shoulder pads, SHEERS, COLUMN and FULL SKIRTS, CORSETRY, and SLIP DRESSES.

So ready, set Shop!

And remember, I am always here to help.

The Beauty Edit 2024

It's been a while and I thought the best way to start off the new year would be with a fresh take on beauty. Now beauty is not my thing, but goes hand-in-hand with fashion and can really help get the new year off to a fresh start. Feeling empowered in your look is the start to crushing all your goals.

Fortunately, I was able to get the advice of a real beauty expert, Jill Harth. And when I say real beauty expert, I mean someone who does makeup and hair for newscasters, photoshoots, brides and so much more.

Check out our conversation.

DP: Peach Fuzz is Pantone's color of the year. Why is knowing the Pantone Color of the Year relevant?

JH: It’s important to know as it will affect the choices you will have when you want to purchase clothes and makeup and it’s what you’ll be seeing in all forms of media. Incorporating a new color into your life is how you can look and feel like you’re keeping up with the times.  It urges everyone to make changes in their look and not get stuck in a beauty rut.  I use it as a way to nudge clients to play a little.   A new lipstick in the hottest color is a fun and inexpensive way to look “of the moment."

Peach Fuzz is a pretty, understated, light shade.  I recommend it as a sweep of eye color across the lids. It’ll highlight any eye color and make them look fresh, but I find that blue-eyed women really will love the “pop” that a peach tone gives.  If a light peach is too light for you everyone can find a shade of Peach that will bring warmth, youth, and elegance to your face.

Deeper tones of peach blush will warm up and sculpt your face.  A very light Peach blush can act as a highlighter when applied to the top of your cheekbones.  Deeper shades of peachy pink make absolutely beautiful blushes that will light up your face. Plus, I find that a peachy pink blush is flattering to everyone! Cream peachy blushes can be used on cheeks and lips.  

Jill’s recommended Lipstick

JH: I like a seasonal color story update.   The idea is to reinvigorate your look.  Even if you change just one cosmetic product to start, it will update your look.  A peachy Lip gloss is pretty alone and very fresh but don’t forget to outline your lips with lipliner.  It’s a must for giving your lips shape and more texture for your lipstick to stick to.  

Besides using monotone shades of peach on all your main facial features, (eyes, lips, cheeks), I like to do contrasts for more drama.  How about adding a dark navy blue liner to apply over your eyeshadow? It’ll give more emphasis to your eye color.  I also like deep green eyeliners and bronzes with peach.  Or for a bolder look, I would build it up more with A cornflower blue or navy blue in your eye crease will keep more contour and shape to your eyes.  Or if you don’t like playing up your eyes, use a darker shade of peach on your lips with a Peach tone highlighter all over your face. If you find that peach doesn’t look good on your skin tone in general but you want to be on trend, stick to peach eyeshadows and contrast your lips with shades of warm reds or pinks. 

For beautiful, real-life skin:  the trend is radiant skin. A little shine is good. It’s youthful and fresh.  You’ll achieve it by using a sheer Mineral tint with some glow in it. I like luminance to a face.  Avoid flat, matte, and heavy foundations unless you want to look older.  

For hair, I’m seeing more Strawberry Blonde shades than I have ever seen before.  A gorgeous shiny glaze of color with a peachy undertone will add an angelic glow and outrageous shine to your hair.  Coordinating your lips and nail color is a classically chic touch. 

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DP: It’s me again. If you would like to find out more about Jill and how she can help you with your beauty needs in either service or product, you can find her here.

And she has been so generous as to offer my insiders a discount on shopping her products.you can head on over to  Shop.JillHarth.com and get 15% off by using code  HAPPY2024

Red Hot!

It’s that time of year again! One of my readers, (Hi Jamie) told me that her favorite issues of Insider News were the trends of the season. So here you have it.

As always, I have to say that “trends are suggestions and not mandates”. I am here to inform and then you make the call on what works for you.

So trends go in cycles and some last longer than others. That means that there will be some items listed here that are continuing from the Spring or Fall of last year. This is great news because no one wants to spend money on a one-hit wonder. Am I right?

What is also interesting is that some classic pieces that are timeless can also become trendy. We saw that with Ballet Flats and Loafers. And speaking of Loafers, you can read an article that yours truly was quoted in, on how they are trendy and how new variations of styles and styling have given them a fresh update.

I think one of the newest trends this season is the Vest. We have seen sweater vests recently, and they are still around, but currently, the traditional menswear woven styles are hot. If you are more traditional you can wear them as a layering piece and for a style update, they are being worn solo.

The Peplum is back and this is a cute style that is also flattering and can hide your pouch. Corset styles continue. Remember these don’t have to be overtly sexy and are very wearable like seaming details in a sweater.

Image courtesy of freedigitalphotos.net by Carlos Porto

In skirts, the newest is the full Circle Skirt, think 50’s style. However, it looks very new paired with modern pieces like tanks, graphic tees, a basic sweater, and moto jackets. You will also continue to see Minis, A-line, and Pencil Skirts. Which honestly don’t feel that new or crazy trendy. So you can be on-trend and feel confident that these styles have legs (get the pun? LOL).

Other items that continue are Wide Pants in both jeans and trousers and Baggy Cargos.

Knit Dressing, like sweater dresses and matching sets continues; which is great for comfort while still looking effortlessly put together.

Column Dresses are new and very flattering as they will elongate your body.

For coats, you will see Pea Coats, Bombers, Trenches, Faux fur & Shearlings, Duvet coats you just want to wrap yourself in and the Puffers continues. Long-line Maxi coats look fresh.

For shoes, the Moto Boot is new. The Second-skin Boot (which looks great with cropped flares) and Pointy Toes are trending. Kitten Heels are big, which is great when you want the dressiness of a heel and also want some comfort.

In fabrications, Sheers and Velvets are big. And Leather and Faux Leather have become staples and will continue to continue.

Key callouts to Tailoring, Defined Waistlines, and Strong Shoulders. Can we say, “Hello 80’s power suit?”

In Bags, Oversized continues for that “capacious” look. The Top Handles are feminine and retro. And Soft Clutches are everywhere.

In accessories, Chunky Earrings are big. Belts are back, both as an added accessory to a dress or skirt that might not have had them, and also making those belt loops on trousers and jeans useful again. STYLIST TIP – Any garment that comes with a self-fabric belt will instantly look more styled if you swap it out for a belt of your own. 

Rosettes are blooming everywhere, both included on the garment and as individual accessories.

And so I don’t forget, the meaning of the title of this Insider News, Red is the hottest color of the season. Trendy and oh-so classic!

Do you have additional questions or need some wardrobe assistance? Feel free to reach out. I would love to hear from you.

Did I TICK You Off?

A few months ago I sent out an Insider News called "Which Watch Makes You Tick?", where I presented 3 personality types regarding style. Since my personality was 100% design-focused, I thought everyone else would also have a clear personality type too.

Well, I stand corrected. I got a note from my Client Jennie (Hi Jennie) and here is what she said.

“In your article, you say there are 3 types of people - those who value luxury, those who like luxury but at a lower cost, and those who prefer design over luxury.
 
I am constantly trying to weed things out of my closet, and I am frozen with indecision because I am trapped between being the type of person who values luxury and the type of person who prefers design over luxury.
 
In my closet, I have some things that I got back when I didn't have the same income I do now, and they are cute styles but with lower quality fabrics - they don't feel as soft or wear as well, for instance.
 
I also have things that I spent a good chunk of change to buy but I'm not crazy about them anymore.  Some of these are from as recently as last year.  I am not the kind of person who sells things, so I would just donate them.  That's ok with me, but I hate to let go of expensive things if I'm going to regret it later, and I don't trust myself to make good decisions!
 
So, what's your advice?  Do I get rid of the styles I like because they're not of the quality that is important to me, and/or do I get rid of higher-end things that are just ok style-wise because I know they're good quality and they will serve me well?  If I hate something and will never wear it regardless of the quality it's an easy toss, but if something is just ok - high quality or not - I find it hard to get rid of because I don't want to have nothing in my closet and then feel unhappy because I'm wearing the same thing all the time!”

My Reply -

“I guess just like when you take those personality tests, often people have a mixture of personalities.

Now, remember this advice is coming from someone who prefers design over luxury. Personally, I have tried many high-end items and can say that often I like the less expensive version much better and have found them to be truly durable. You will probably hear from other stylists to invest in quality pieces blah blah blah. I think each item may be a case on its own.

So I think you may have to review each low-priced item and see if it “sparks joy”, feels comfortable, and makes you feel great when you wear it. As long as it doesn’t look cheap and you like it, it is a keeper. I am always secretly smiling when I get compliments from people who I  know to spend a lot of money on blah clothes or ask if something of mine is a specific designer item.

As for the expensive pieces if you think you are not going to wear them, or you might out of guilt, but don’t really enjoy wearing them, then I recommend you give them away. But before you donate them, would one of your friends or family want them? I know I always prefer to give items to someone I know first if I know it will make them happy.

Going forward, after you have purchased something you may want to take it on a test run -  wear it around the house for a while. Then think about if you were wearing this item and ran into an ex-boyfriend or someone from school that you hadn’t seen in a million years, would you feel great in this outfit or would you be like “damn I wish I looked better”? (Hair not included in these thoughts).

I hope this is helpful and I guess for everyone it is not so cut and dry. I am a clear design person, but for you, the lines are a bit greyer.”

I would love to know your thoughts. Do you agree or have further questions? Why not write a comment?

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Spring for Spring

As your Stylist, I always like to provide you with the update for the season so that you can see what is current and make the best choices that work for you.  My coined term is that “Trends are suggestions and not mandates.”

This season I felt a little less inspired by trends (although I do have a few goodies to share) and more about what I am suggesting to my customers as key items. You will get a good mix in here.

I started out by looking at what I had written you for Fall. And I can clearly confirm that my top trends for Fall are continuing. Something like the white tank, which was a surprising Fall suggestion, is a clear winner for the upcoming season. The shapes I talk about for denim/pants and the shoes and the accessories are still spot on, but of course in more seasonal fabrics, etc. So definitely go ahead and refresh your memory of the FALL CHEAT SHEET.

I also went back to last year for my Spring suggestions and thought that they were still very valid too. So check out BRIGHT IDEAS & MORE.

This is very good news! It means two things.

1) You can feel like the items you purchased last Spring and Fall still look fresh and updated.

2) If they felt too trendy for you in the past seasons, perhaps after seeing them for a while, you are ready to give them a try yourself.

And this leads me to another favorite piece that I wrote WHY TRENDS ARE LIKE iPhones. (Note that this piece was written years ago and that the iPhone model numbers mentioned were the most current at that time).

So now you want to know what is new…. Here is some new inspo on what is hot for Spring 23.

Image courtesy of freedigitalphots.net by Serge Bertasius

Let’s start with some of the key items I am recommending to my customers.

1)     A white button-up shirting. This is such a versatile piece. It can be worn by itself or under a blazer, vest, or sweater.  It can be worn fully tucked in, half tucked, French tucked, untucked, knotted at the waist, or as a shirt jacket. I like the last two with a little white tank/cami underneath.

 2)     Similarly, a chambray or denim shirt is also a casual versatile piece.

 3)     Hot off the press for Spring is the longer denim skirt: midi or maxi length. Because it is denim it is really versatile. The main difference in styling would be proportions. You will want to wear something on the shorter side or tucked in.

4)     We have seen jumpsuits for a while now. I love lightweight denim or neutral utility styles. as an easy one-and-done that can be worn back to sneakers or sandals. I always like to add a little white tank or cami underneath for an effortlessly styled look.

5)     Another great newbie for Spring is the Ballet flat. When I told a friend, she replied that she has been wearing ballet flats for years and didn’t know that they had gone out of style. They are an item that never truly goes out of style. But ever since one of the big designers sent them down the runway, they have been revived as a new trend. This means that you will see many more options in the stores and the fashionistas will e sporting them. So what you have worn in the past as a cute and functional item is now a fresh and updated trend.

The denim skirt speaks to the overall trend of Western influence. Also included are denim jackets, chambray shirts, western boots, and even the bandana.

The ballet flat fits in with the overall trend of Preppy. Remember we had the sweater vest and updated loafers come back? New versions of twinsets have shown up and Preppyy is getting a fun twist and is a bit more playful with fresh colors and some items with a side of kitsch.

So we have had quite a few seasons with pink as the main color. Red is now hot!

New, but never truly goes out of style is the polka dot pattern.

And if you want to go a bit bolder in your style, try metallic silver jeans.

Bodycon and cutout are also still strong. You may say that you are too old for that or that you don’t want to show off certain areas. Luckily you can still get that trend. Try a bodycon style with draping across the midsection, which is extremely flattering. And if you don’t want that area exposed with cutouts, keyholes at the neck and shoulders can be a sophisticated and sexy alternative.

So that is a wrap on my suggestions this season. Have fun with your style and if you need a little help let me know.

And before you go shopping to feel fresh and empowered, maybe there are some old things in your wardrobe you need some help getting rid of. I can help you with that. I can also help make some older styles that you love, feel fresh and updated with new accessories. So contact me for your Spring Empowerment. assistance.

Which Watch Makes You Tick?

Recently my husband decided that he wanted to buy himself a new luxury watch to celebrate some major wins at work. He had a few nice watches that were gifted to him, but at Fifty this would feel like a real benchmark to purchase and own himself. I agreed with him. If he wanted it, he earned it.

He had his thoughts set on a Rolex. Now no judgment to Rolex, it is the “Harvard of” watches, but personally, I do not think they have the most beautiful designs. To me, design is more important than name or status.

Alex and I went to research some of the top brands of watches at luxury stores. Fortunately, the Rolex he wanted was not in stock. This gave him time to think about his desires. He expressed to me that it was a bit irrational to spend all that money on a watch when there are plenty of better things he can be putting his money towards.

About two weeks later he saw a more affordable luxury watch that he tried on and liked. We left the store and a few days later he was still thinking about this watch. This is always a key sign to me that I really love and want something. He looked it up online and found a distributor selling the watch at an even better price than the original retailer. He went ahead and ordered it.

The watch came in, it looked beautiful, but on the side of the box it said: “made in China”. What? This was supposed to be a Swiss-made brand. Was it a very good knock-off?...

So, then the question became if he loved the design of the watch, would he be OK wearing a beautiful knock-off? He had been looking forward to the entire ceremonial unboxing of this luxury item and it was ruined.

He asked for my advice and it was challenging to respond because I believe the right watch for him would be the one that made him feel the best (Stylempower) and I could not decide for him.

I compared the unboxing to the lavish wedding that many of us want, although it doesn’t seem rational to spend all that money on one day of your life. My question was, would he be happy in the marriage? By that, I mean owning the watch, if it were a knock-off but he still liked it.

Fortunately, after doing some online research, it was the box, not the watch that was made in China. He felt confident that the watch was real and he decided to keep it. It’s now been about two weeks and I catch him glancing admirably at the watch with a huge smile. He LOVES the watch and it makes him happy!

Now to my point. There are three types of people.

1)     The ones who love luxury. They love a designer name and/or knowing that they have quality pieces.

2)     Those who like the idea of luxury but don’t want to pay the price. This is usually more about logos and the presumed look of status.

3)     Those who prefer design over luxury. This often includes a more unique design that doesn’t try to resemble a specific brand.

So, I ask you which one are you? This is what is going to help make the decision about things that you own and love. And when you take a look at them, they will make you smile. STYLEMPOWER!

Sweater Weather

We are officially in sweater weather.

Whether you are buying a gift for someone or want to update your personal selection, I thought it would be helpful to give you some tips on which sweaters would flatter different body types.

Now, this is not to say that if you like something other than what is suggested, you should not buy it or own it. This is merely a guideline, so you are aware and can make the best choices. If you love something else, I say "totally go for it”!

My first suggestion might be obvious but…

1) The MIDSECTION

Many women do not like their bellies and midsections. This is an easy fix. Wear a traditional relaxed or more updated oversized sweater. Anything clingy may call attention to your midsection. And just like in clothing, if you have any draping or shirring, this will also be really flattering.

You can also draw attention away from your midsection with a great neckline or by adding a fun scarf or short necklace.

2) BIG CHEST

Large expanses of the same solid fabric are going to make any area appear bigger. There are many tips and tricks to fix this issue. Open necklines are one. A scoop neck, V-neck, or other open necklines will break up the area showing a combination of skin and fabric instead of the large expanse of fabric that a high neck will provide. Now if you do have a high neck, there are other ways to break it up with a necklace or scarf.

The sweater may also provide a break in the long expanse of fabric by color blocking, plackets, or other details in which case the neckline may no longer be important.

Also know that thick ribs and chunky cables are going to add bulk to any area. Generally, it is better if they are loose and not clingy.

Also, take note of the padding in your bras which has become ubiquitous. Look for unpadded bras that still have great support without the bulk.

3) SMALL CHEST

And as you might guess, the reverse is true for small chests. High necklines and turtlenecks look great on you. Fitted ribs and chunky cables are your friends. And anything else that might add volume to the top sections such as ruffles should work well for you.

This certainly is not to say that you can’t accessorize with scarves or necklaces.

Photo courtesy of Serge Bertasius Photography at freedigitalphotos.net

4) TALL

You can carry a maxi cardigan with ease. Tunics are great and you can even accessorize them with a hip belt for additional style.

5) PETITE

Believe it or not, you too can rock a long cardigan! The trick here is proportions. When wearing a longer length, hitting right above your knee or higher is a great proportion. Here you should be able to carry it off with ease. Hitting at or slightly below your knee may drown you. Heels often help to balance out the length.

You may be able to go even longer and an ankle length can elongate your look with one long line, but this will vary depending on the specific item and even your proportions.

6) GENERAL SLIMMING

Back to the guideline, I gave you earlier about large expanses of fabric making you look larger - an open cardigan will do wonders. It breaks up your torso into 3 vertical sections. A very flattering optic!

7) COLOR

What are the colored items in your closet that when you put them on, you magically look more vibrant?

For those of you who know me, this is a favorite of mine. I have a Lifesaver Orange sweater and just purchased a fun yellow and “Valentino” Pink that I can’t wait to wear.

Now you may not be so bold and daring in your color selections. However, you will always feel and look great in flattering colors.l

Cozy up and look cute is the theme of the season.

This is the perfect time of year, to get organized, feel empowered, and set yourself up for success. Contact me for your personal wardrobe needs.

Your Fall Cheat Sheet

It’s officially Fall. Although as we know the weather will flip flop for a while. I wanted to get you on track for your fall shopping and let you know what the trends are for the season. If you’ve been reading the insider news for a while, you will know that I have coined (and should trademark) that “TRENDS ARE SUGGESTIONS AND NOT MANDATES”.

There is so much newness, I can’t even cover everything. The good news is that leaves lots of options. You and I are not going to love everything out there, so pick and choose what works for you.

Also, know that most trends don’t go in and out in a year, there are many trends that have legs and carry through seasons. So, you can pull out that Fall wardrobe and still be excited to wear many of the things that you already have.

But sometimes we want a little newness to get excited about the season and to freshen up what we own. Sometimes we have some holes in our wardrobe, so here is the opportunity to fill in these pieces.  Here we go…

1)     DENIM - many people’s wardrobe staples. I know your first question is “can I wear my skinnies”? And the answer is “YES” they look great with oversized /voluminous tops and tucked into those high boots (that I haven’t mentioned yet). And for an updated look, try denim straight, cropped flares, long wide and puddling at the hem, trousers and oversized. And a lower rise is back as an option. (Me “yes please”).

 2)     TAILORING. (Pretty self-explanatory)

3)     What will your PANTS look like? In addition to the rise and the puddle, which we already mentioned, slouchy in general is a look for both tailored and more casual like cargo pants. Super wide, a longer Coulotte and skater styles are also making an appearance.

4)     And what about those JACKETS and COATS? Well, your blazer may be getting a bit bigger and so many of your jackets which were shrunken in the past are now becoming oversized. Think denim, bomber, and motorcycle. Other coats and jackets include Dusters, quilted Puffers, faux Fur, Pea coats and leather Trenches, and heavy industrial-type leathers. On the flip side, a cropped blazer is also happening.

5)     Many styles are resurfacing from Y2K. They include minis, sequins, and crop tops. If you have worn them before and they are not your thing now, simply say “pass”. And let your kids have fun with them.

6)     Three key standout items worth mentioning. The CORSET, which can sound a bit sexy and lingerie-like, but there are many great styles that are inspired by it in tee-shirts and sweaters. A strapless style also looks cute layered over a tee or a great white collared shirt. The SLIP DRESS is everywhere. And the WHITE TANK. Both can be layered in Fall and worn on their own in the warm weather.

7)     We have seen it for a few seasons and celebrating the body is still a big thing. This is anywhere from BODYCON dressing to CUTOUTS. And the cutouts do not have to be overtly sexy, Afterall, everyone has good shoulders.

8)     COLOR wise, you can always go with the traditional Fall colors, but I love that they have added brights to the season. #Barbicore or Valentino hot Pink is a key bright.

9)     So much fun stuff going on with SHOES and BOOTS. The number one recommendation I would say is the tall boot. The bare leg thing with skirts and dresses is hard when it gets cold. These will keep you warm and you won’t have to worry about pale legs. For those who like comfort, the ballet flat is back. And if you are more edgy try a Motocycle boot. Platforms are appearing on everything. And although you are wearing a heel, they can be quite comfortable as you can subtract the front platform height from the back, making the heel appear taller with a less of an incline. Other styles include clogs, loafers, Western style boots and architectural heels.

10)      For BAGS you have the Crescent, Hobo, oversized, fuzzy and the classic styles with chain straps. The Baguette is celebrating its’s 25th anniversary.

Feeling a bit overwhelmed? Do you need help in your closet or shopping? Contact me to empower you in your fall fashion.

What is Your Summer "Sorbet"?

Every week as I review my website analytics, one blog is consistently searched for over and over, even though it was written years ago Does Black Go with Everything?.

Now that summer is finally here, you may have the same question for white. Does White go with everything? Surprisingly, my answer is not the same. This seems odd since they are both as neutral as you can get, right?

In most cases, I would say "yes", White does go with everything. White is your Sorbet. It is the palette cleanser that helps many things in your wardrobe look fresher and more vibrant.

Although, there are some exceptions, for instance, I do not like white paired back to heavy wintery items. We can discuss that at a later time. Right now we are focusing on summer. As an example, I have this fun bold and colorful skirt. What would you wear with it?

You don't want to wear any of these bright colors back to it. First, they would be very difficult to match. Even if you could, it would look too matchy-matchy and possibly a bit garish. Black would look to heavy, Here is where a nice white top is a great neutral that actually helps brighten an already bright piece.

So as you continue to look through your summer wardrobe at items that you are not sure what to wear them back to, see if white might be a better option than black or a matching item.

This brings me to another question that you also might be asking.

Do jeans or denim go with everything? 

The answer here is pretty similar to my "yes" to white. I say yes to denim as a neutral. And no, you do not need any blue in the item to make it work. Here again we are talking color wise and not formality, which is also another conversation.

Here are some additional guidelines when pairing pieces back with jeans/denim.

Dark denim is usually dressier. The lighter the wash, the more casual it generally is.

However, I do break out my most faded washes in the summer. They look great with pastels. Dark washes look great with brights.

I hope these tidbits were helpful for your summer styling. If you are still confused and overwhelmed, please feel free to reach out so I can help you with your specific items and needs.

Bright Ideas and More

I recently read a blog that referenced the seasons in New York. I thought it was pretty accurate and funny.

*NEW YORK HAS 12 SEASONS
Winter
Fool’s Spring
Second Winter
Spring of Deception
Third Winter
The Pollening
Actual Spring
Summer
Hell’s Front Porch
False Fall
Second Summer
Actual Fall


And so, every year I struggle with when to present my Spring and Fall trend issues. So here we are again with the flip-flopping weather when we are all ready for actual Spring.

If you have been reading the Stylempower Insider News for some time, you also know that I always start my trend notes by my coined quote “Trends are suggestions and not mandates”. They are simply to put you in the know, so that you can decide what works best for you.

I am happy to report personally, unlike a year ago, with my newsletter entitled “WHAT I AM NOT WEARING FOR SPRING”, there are a few trends I am very excited about this year. Do note that many of the trends from last Spring, that I was not a fan of, are still going strong. But you may have totally other opinions and preferences.

1) Brights – All kinds of brights. My two favorites, Orange and Fuchsia, with some other fun and bold colors such as Turquoise and bright Apple Green. And what makes these colors new and fresh is not only will you find them in casuals and knits, they also make for a polished and fun update for suiting.

2) Romance feels both vintage and modern. Florals, Peter Pan collars, corsetry and lace. And of course, the continuation of all the puff sleeves.

3) Sexy is so in. This includes, miniskirts, bodycon styles and cutouts all over. Now I know that many of my readers are not into the overt sexiness of many of these looks and that is perfectly OK. I do want to point out that there are modified versions which I am a big fan of. Although you may not want your whole sides and back cut out, an asymmetrical keyhole, a cold shoulder or one shoulder can work on anyone and looks subtly sexy.

Click on the image to get inspired with many Spring outfit looks and you can shop directly from the link.

4)  Low Rise – Many of you know that despite other stylists hailing the high-rise, this is a category I could not get on board with. I kept hearing how flattering it was and how it makes you look taller and thinner. This Five-foot one gal is here to say, it did not do that for me. I love the elongated torso look of the lower rise. Who wants their boob sitting so close to their waist?

5)  Then there is a flashback to classic preppy. sweater vests, polo collars and collegiate looks.

6)  We continue to see crafty, artisanal, global and folklore looks which include patchworks, embroidery, crochet , fringe, hand crafted and appliques.

7)  Suiting is also transforming. slouchy pants often with a lower rise and bold jackets many with shoulder pads. Jackets are mostly oversized and there is also a resurgence of cropped jackets.

Some fun shoes include Gladiator sandals, Fisherman sandals, toe loop sandals, and sculptural and platform heels.

These are to name a few trends that are new and continuing for Spring and Summer this year. There is a ton more out there to explore.

If you are totally confused and overwhelmed, feeling clutter or disorganized or just short on time, I am here to help. Please reach out and enjoy feeling empowered for the new season.

THE FIRST TWO PEOPLE TO SCHEDULE AND PAY FOR A CLOSET rejuvenation GET 50% OFF.

 

*Quoted from Someoneyouknowit on Ifunny

Mixed Messages

I recently heard an interview with Lady Gaga. She spoke about the power of makeup and how it helps transform her into the superwoman that she is. And she is!

Fashion has the same power to inspire you with the confidence to kill it in everything that you do.

My clients come to me so that I can help them harness this superpower. Many of my clients have concerns about their weight and what flatters them. I have many tips and guidelines to help them choose the best outfits that are flattering to their body types.

But here is where the mixed message comes in. Society is finally moving in the direction of inclusivity. We realize that not everyone looks like the models on the magazines, we SHOULD love who we are, no matter what we look like.

Fortunately, magazines and other media are starting to present women of different sizes, shapes, and colors. But we still have a long way to go.

In the meantime, many women come to me and ask for help for looks that will flatter them. It is my job to meet them where they are and help them feel the best that they can in their wardrobe.

Hopefully one day my job will transform from focusing on flattering my clients to solely focusing on their achieving personal style goals.

One of the people that is helping to change the conversation is Erica Mather, author of YOUR BODY, YOUR BEST FRIEND.

Erica and I presented a webinar where we had a frank conversation entitled Finding your confidence post-pandemic. A conversation about style empowerment and body positivity.

If you missed it or want a refresh, click on the image below.

9 Tips to Flatter your Figure

1) Colorblock and vertical panels will break up large areas, making them look smaller. You can also use, scarves, necklaces, cardigans or blazers to break up large expanses of fabric

2) Flared/bootleg pants will balance out wide hips (trending NOW!)

3) Shoes that match pants, are skin colored, low-cut toes, or cutout sides, will elongate legs

4) Wrap dresses, loose, untucked, drapey tops will all help to hide a tummy

5) Long torso - wear empire or cropped jacket

     Short torso - wear drop waist or tunic

6) If you are petite, proportion is important. Don't wear too much fabric that will overwhelm you

7)  Tight rule: Tight top wear loose bottom, tight bottom wear loose top

8) Small chest = higher neckline like crewneck

    Larger chest = lower neckline like V-neck & scoop neck

    Boatneck is good for narrow shoulders and wide hips

9) Do not wear lengths that hit at the largest part of your body. For instance, skirts and cropped pants should not hit at the most muscular part of your calf. Follow similar guidelines for your thighs and arms.

And Now, I am Just Like You

When I started Stylempower over 8 years ago, I found that many entrepreneurs were telling their stories from the side of overcoming obstacles to become a success. For example, a business coach who was trying multiple practices to no avail finally hits on the magic formula and is now super successful, teaching all of their clients what they had learned in their journey.

I could never tell this type of story because fashion has always been, my hobby, my passion, and something that came easily for me. That is until now...

For the first time, I feel I can truly put myself in the shoes of my clients. I think it was the perfect storm of the pandemic and a new fashion cycle (that has been brewing for a few years, that I choose to ignore).

And now when I open my closet, I too have nothing to wear.

Let me explain a bit more. Starting with the fashion cycle. Recently I have not been liking many of the trends for my personal style and therefore I have not been partaking of them. (Here is my article "What I am not buying for Spring".

For quite a few years now we have been hearing that skinny jeans are out. But skinny jeans were still the majority of jeans in the stores and people were still wearing them, a lot. As I have discussed my personal distaste for high waist straight leg (HWSL) jeans, (and you should totally wear them if you like them) I have chosen to ignore flashing signs in front of me.

*Then I purchased a pair of platform cameo clogs for fall and found that my straight-leg jeans were not working with them. It was this and the continual showing of looser pants (flashing signs getting brighter and more frequent) that I realized I need a jeans overhaul.

Now don't get me wrong, I am keeping my straight-leg jeans because they do serve a purpose in my wardrobe, but I needed new jeans. I solved my problem with flares. I invested in a few new options which look cute with the clogs, and are much more flattering on me than those HWSL jeans.

Let's talk tops, shall we? For years I had so many fun print blouses which I loved to wear and many were one-off samples that I had designed. I think the same thing happened. The fashion cycle has turned to puffed sleeves and the lack of purchasing much in the past two years during the pandemic has rendered many of my blouse silhouettes looking dated.

And then there are my blazers. I was never one to wear a classically shaped work blazer. I did have a nice assortment of unique styled blazers that were so interesting that they were just cool and did not go in or out of style and I enjoyed wearing them for many years. However, as I pulled them down from my closet this fall, I looked at the shape of the sleeves and sent about 8 of them to the thrift shop.

So yes this is all about me, but I hope you can relate to my fashion struggles because now I can surely relate to yours.

Oh, wait there is more.

* TIP - New clothing silhouettes may require an update in accessories and vice versa. In this case, my clogs needed a new pant shape. But sometimes new accessories or silhouettes can transform your older clothes into looking really current.

Me in one of my old jackets that is timeless not in a classic way, but in a so cool way. This one I kept.

The pandemic made it worse. For the last two years, I have been shopping at a minimum. I have never personally needed a closet rejuvenation…until now.

In the past, I would buy a new item here and get rid of an old item there. And so it was a nice cycle of continually updating my wardrobe.

However, now and even before the pandemic, there are fewer places to shop, I used to enjoy stopping into stores, seeing what they have, and picking up something if I liked it. I have become more of an online shopper. And of course, I provide this service under Nordstrom, so online shopping has become my new normal.

And another thing about the pandemic is the working from home thing, I need effortless casual clothing. Effortless casual is not my authentic style. I can easily make cute outfits for my customers and inspiration boards with this kind of clothing, but these are not items I generally wear.

So my new challenge is to create a wardrobe of effortless casual pieces that feel authentic to me. The flared jeans and platform clogs are a start. And I really hope to be going back to more opportunities where I can wear more dressed-up items that give me joy and represent the true me.

So when my customers feel bad that they don't like turtlenecks, are allergic to wool, have a wide foot, or whatever their needs may be, they apologize for being picky. I can honestly say, no apology is necessary. We all have our dressing challenges and preferences and I can help you work around them.

In the meantime, as I search for current pieces that are on-trend, unique, affordable, and express my personal tastes to update my wardrobe, I am here for you, understand your style, and can help you do the same. 

Please reach out so that I can help you.

Whats Trending for Fall?

Sitting outside on Labor Day weekend, flipping through my fashion magazines, I could feel a change in the air. I was in the Catskills and just like that, Mother Nature seemed to know, and the temperature dipped into the 50’s in the evening.

After Labor Day always signifies a second opportunity for a fresh start or a second New Year (which it actually is, if you are Jewish). For some, it is back to school for the kids, and this year it is a variety of options, from continuing to work from home to a hybrid office, or totally back to work.

Whatever your situation may be, it is the opportunity to refresh your wardrobe.

I think as a stylist, it is my job to inform you of what is currently trending for the season. This certainly doesn't mean you have to buy it all, some of it, or any of it. Because, as I say every season...

Trends are suggestions and not mandates.

With that, I have the top 21 Trends for Fall 2021. Just so that you are in the know.

1. Clogs

2. Cutouts

3. Lilac

4. Patchwork

5. Quilted Jackets

6. Preppy - from sweater vests to polo collared shirts

7. Relaxed tailoring for both blazers and trousers

8. The Apres Ski Look including Fair Isle sweaters

9. Sweater sets - this can be the update to the old twin set (cami & cardi) or a matching top with either a skirt or a pant.

10. Folklore, Craftsy and DIY looks

11. Tall boots

12. Tailored leather

13. Puffer jackets

14. Y2k is back - although frankly, I think there are always so many things trending from other decades such as the '70s, '80s and ‘90s

15. Sherling accessories

16. Lug sole boots

17. Sheer fabrics

18. The utilitarian look

19. Oversized bags

20. Sequins

21. Lounge sets

How can you personalize these items to your personal style and needs? Or maybe you just need to purge your closet to make room for new, fresher pieces or items that are more relevant to your current lifestyle. Enlist an expert for help here :)

The Two Biggest Issues My Client's are Facing Post Covid.

As we get back into the swing of normal life again, I have two consistent issues I am hearing from clients.

Shall we discuss?

I gained so much weight during Covid, nothing fits. What do I wear?

Well Covid or other reasons, here is my advice on what to wear so that you can feel fabulous and empowered while you are trying to lose weight.

Accessories are generally a one-size-fits-all. You can invest here in shoes or bags or have some fun with inexpensive trendy jewelry. Whatever your style and budget, this is the way to go, and these accessories can totally transform an outfit.

If you really can't fit into anything, get a few basic pieces that you can accessorize in multiple ways to look like new outfits. For instance, the little black dress for day can be worn one day with a scarf, belt, and great shoes. On another day, perhaps you have a cardigan or blazer and a whole different style shoe for a whole different look.

Some key pointers here.

a) Wrap dresses or tops are generally more adjustable and flexible with sizing, so a good option as you continue to lose weight.

b) Knits have inherent stretch and are more flexible with sizing, even if the wovens have stretch in it. Therefore knits are a better option for changing sizes but beware of too much clinginess.

c) Choose items to draw attention to where you would like to focus. If it's your face, a great short necklace, scarf or fresh lipstick will do the trick. On the flip side, if your tummy is not what you want to spotlight, stay away from belts.

d) For any of your "backdrop" clothing, as I like to call them, (as the accessories are the star), choose neutrals. No patterns. Colors will work, but they won't be as versatile and transformative if you want to wear them often, people are more likely to remember the fuchsia top even if you change the accessories.

Image courtesy of freedigitalphotos.net by everydayplus

I have been wearing leggings and joggers and can't bear the thought of wearing tight pants back to the office. Help!

You are in luck here. Designers are aware of this and there is are some new style trends that help solve this issue.

a) The hybrid pant. This is the combination of traditional trousers and a jogger. There are many versions of designs out there, but the basics are as follows. The waistbands are not as constricted with buttons and zippers, they are more likely to be elastic and or drawstring or ties. Often they have trouser details like pockets and perhaps a crease in the leg. The leg shape is generally fuller and the fabrics are polished and career-focused but have lots of stretch in them.

b) The knit set. This is around now and will be more common when you go back to the office in the fall, as many are heavier sweater weights. A tank and short set are rampant for Summer, although generally not office appropriate. The office-appropriate tops can range from short sleeves, long sleeves, or an update on the old twin-set. The bottoms can be a jogger style (also usually not for the office unless it is really casual). A pajama-style pant in a rich knit, with the right accessories can look really elevated. The other option is knit skirts, which are generally pencil and can vary in length from short to knee, to midi to maxi. I am seeing midi as a very common option.

Well I hope this has helped as your fix for your Covid Transition style. Reach out to me for any questions, help or whatever you might need to feel empowered in our old/new world.

What I am not buying for Spring

I have spring fever and I am excited to buy some new items.

I go to the stores and I look online and I think "I really don’t like a lot of things and there is nothing to buy". I am not into the trends this season.

(Warning: It sounds like it is all about me, but it is really not.)

HERE IS WHAT I PERSONALLY HATE.

• High waist pants. They tell you they are flattering and they are totally lying.

• Sneakers with everything.

• Straight leg and baggy jeans. Also, horribly unflattering. When the models look heavy, need I say more?

HERE ARE SOME TRENDS THAT I RESPECT BUT THEY DON’T WORK FOR ME AND MY PERSONAL STYLE. (Take note here, as you may like some of these trends for yourself.)

• Matching sweater sets. Cami with a cardi or sweater with a midi skirt or PJ pants.*

• Pilgrim collar and Victorian-style blouses.

• Polo collar tops.

• The new hybrid trouser. Career style pants with an elastic and/or drawstring waist.*

• Traditional florals and ditsy prints.

*These are the answers to having worn casual clothes for the past year and now having to polish up your look without sacrificing comfort. Good office casual options.

So, on one hand, I feel like there is nothing to buy, but then there is (keep reading).

So why am I telling you all this? Because you don’t have to like every trend and some seasons you will be less excited about them.

I always say that “Trends are suggestions and not mandates”. So only buy what you like, and some years, there will be fewer options that work for you.

So here are some things I am excited to buy.

• Square toe sandals

• Thong sandals with heels

• Kick flare jeans

• Jumpsuits

• Bright colors and fun prints.

Additionally, I look back on my spring trends from last year, and since many did not get much wear, I think these are all still good trends for this year.

I also want to add that for the past few years we have been hearing that skinny jeans are out and yet they still appear as the most shown and sold jeans in the stores. So hold on to those babies, I am.

Since coming out of last year is like no other, I also want to give some insight into how fashion will be evolving.

1) Get ready for the roaring twenties of the twenty-first century we are coming out of hibernation with bold style. Say hello to glitz and glam.

2) The industry is changing for good and for the better. There are more conscious efforts in being environmentally conscious, sustainability, transparency, recycling, upcycling, renting, and a focus on black, women, Latinx, and other minority-owned businesses.

If you would like some style inspiration browse or shop here or request help from me. I can send you style boards created just for you (No Charge).

New Beginnings

It has been a while. If you were wondering why you hadn't heard from me, it is because I was very busy moving. Although I only moved within my building, this was major for me as I lived in my apartment for my entire adult life.

So being the queen of closet rejuvenation, this was my time to clear out after 30 years.

Since I am generally good about regularly bringing small bags over to my local thrift shop, I am happy to say, there was very little for me to get rid of in my wardrobe.

My husband, on the other hand, had 5 garbage bags full of clothes. My cleaning lady took his suits. The other bags included tee shirts, boxers, and socks, which were all perfectly good, but not anything the thrift shop would want.

I am on a platform called Nextdoor Neighbor, where one woman is involved with giving items directly to the homeless. And so I made numerous trips with a rolling suitcase to donate these items. And I felt really good about it.

We had an extra computer that we gave to a friend in need. Easy and another feel-good moment.

I had a pair of Fiorucci jeans from high school that I was holding on to. Like many of my clients, this was a sentimental item. But this move forced me to think, who and what after all these years, was I holding on to them for? So, fortunately, I have a friend whose teenage daughter was thrilled to get them.

Along similar lines, there were two items that if I had a daughter myself, I might have passed them on to. Since I don't, I had to think about what to do with them. One was some jewelry from my childhood, which I gave to my friend's daughter for her Bat Mitzvah. The other was my High School jacket. I was fortunate to have a high school friend whose daughter is currently attending our alma mater.

Speaking of alma maters, I found a book that I received at a college reunion, which was nice for a while, but not as meaningful as a yearbook (which I would NEVER suggest that you get rid of). So I gave it to a friend who did not attend the reunion.

It is important to note that these items were not cluttering up my go-to closet. The jeans were up in a box on the shelf and not with my daily wear jeans. And the High School jacket was at my parent’s place. The jewelry was also tucked away and not with the jewelry that I currently wear.

As you know I am all about clearing the clutter in your wardrobe. But it really took a move and many, many years to think about some things and if I really need them at this point in my life. So my challenge to you is to do the same. Go beyond your day to day clothes and think about if you really need these items and how they can best be utilized and appreciated.

If you still plan to hold on to them, please make sure they are in a place that is not cluttering up your day to day items.

I would love to hear how it goes. Shoot me a note and let me know. And remember, I am always here to help.

Yes, I have Wardrobe Challenges Too

Every year after Labor day, there is the coming excitement of fall, and to me, that means the change of closet and a new fall wardrobe. I am not going to lie and say that this year is exactly the same.

Yes, you will need to change your closet, and there are some new items that you probably need (possibly different than your usual fall shopping list). As we still hang in limber, I admit, it all seems a little unclear.

Yet the other week, as the temperature started to dip, I did feel my usual desire to check out what was up in the closet for fall. Yay, to seeing my favorite camouflage pants again. I know the weather will fluctuate for a while, but that breeze of cool air was an inspiration to me and still gave me the feeling of "fall fever", as it does every year.

Believe it or not, I have wardrobe challenges too. For me, the change of season is always a difficult time for shoes, I am not a ballet flats or slip-on sneakers kind of girl. I love my heels!. I feel dumpy in sneakers and flats and am secretly jealous of all you ladies who look so cute in them.

My go-to in the past few years has been open toe booties for everyday dressy. But what to wear for a casual day especially when it is wet out? Two years ago, I had accidentally found, a perfect shoe solution. As much as I love them, they are very specific and don't go with everything.

Last season, I tried and returned 2 similar pairs in other colors, that I thought made my small foot look like a "flipper foot". This year, I continued my search and found 3 similar pairs, I choose one.

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Although I don't love them like the first pair, they fit the bill, it is a necessity in my wardrobe for casual and especially rainy days when an open toe, suede boot with a heel just won't do.

As I read, what I just wrote, I find it contradictory to most of what I tell you. I am usually saying that you want to surround yourself with a wardrobe that you feel empowered in. Don’t settle for Jell-O when you should have a wardrobe that is more like decadent chocolate cake (or insert your favorite dessert here).

In this instance, because I have been searching for so long, and this year more than ever, I need a casual throw on shoe, more to do errands in than to be dressed for the day, I am settling for something in between. But honestly for most items that aren't a challenge in your wardrobe, GO FOR THE DECADENT CHOCOLATE CAKE.

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Why am I telling you all this? Because frankly, this season is just different. I wanted to pop into your inbox and just connect with you and tell you a personal story about my wardrobe struggles.

Think about this year. What do you think your wardrobe needs are and how do they differ from other years? What are the new, possibly more casual items that you will need? Maybe you don't know and you need some help with clarity on the holes in your wardrobe.

I have already started to schedule some tentative in-home closets for mid-October, with the hope and understanding that things will continually improve in NYC. If you would like to pencil in a date, maybe November feels better for you, or if a virtual session feels more comfortable. please reach out.

In the meantime stay safe and well!